2014年2月12日星期三

Attitude determines failure or success

Undeniably, life is unpredictable. You may dream of the wonderful life as much as you want it to be like as if your future-to-be is at your finger tips , but in reality, life may be twisted as it does not go on as smooth as what you have planned when there is emergence of so-called “obstacles”, which are just happening in the absence of your consciousness, acting as a blocker along the path towards achieving your dream. You may have your clear objective to be achieved at the first place but what matter now is how you are going to realize your objective. It always being said that by having a strategic planning is a crucial way to guide you and ensure you are on the right path to realization. But somehow it does not mean your plan is 100% works as expected. For instance, to complete your research for your final year project, the strategic planning is to read through research article from different sources as much as you can so that you are able to find out the best method to set up the right methodology in order to obtain the final result as you expected. Theoretically, you may think it is correct and your objective may achievable, but it just does not happen the way it should be when you have found out that you couldn’t find the apparatus that you need or maybe the result turns out to be negative. These “obstacles” may upset your easy life as per planned and it turns out that you may need to come out with other contingency plans in order to achieve your dream.

That, is just one example. In real life, obstacles do happen spontaneously in many ways, either during your study life, marriage life, career path, every single decision you have made towards achieving the life that you want to have in the future. And there are only two options to choose, to escape or to face it positively. If you choose to give up, you are totally out from the battle. If you choose the latter, you are struggle to fight with the challenge, and who knows you may stand a chance to win the battle? After all, life is just about learning to fight with the challenges. Fail at the first time does not mean you will forever fall from the path of success unless you choose to give up. Whether you are aware or not, if you able to face the failure positively, it could make you stronger and facing challenges positively lead to enhance your mental maturity which leads you to become ever a better person.

After all, it is the matter of your ATTITUDE in dealing with all these “obstacles”, failure and challenges. How you are going to response to these is vital in determining failure or success in your life. Thomas Edison, Nelson Mandela, Nick Vujicic, just name it out all these successful people whether in career, personal life, politic, aren't they failed for many times before they achieve their dreams and eventually being popular for their success? There is only one reason, they faced positively at their failure and never give up in achieving their dream. So, why not stay positively at your attitude and I am sure your will find success in your life.