人生观

人生总是起起落落
遇到人生路不平，别埋怨自己命运差
只不过是个临时考验
考验你接受它，并且冷静地面对它

根据吸引法则，心态决定命运
心态差，人生就一团糟
心态好，就算遭遇挫折，都会有扭转的玄机
因为人生本来就是一场戏，自导自演
没有所谓被命运安排

遭遇挫折或被拒绝
不代表你失败了
只不过是成功之路必经之地
以平常心对待，坚持自己的梦想继续走下去
畏惧，只会堵路
切记，没有任何人可以拦住你成功
只有被自己堵路的可能

活着，本就不该介意众人的眼光
因为你的诞生不是为了别人而活
努力做回自己，方能活得快乐

阴天的心情

今天的心情是阴阴的，不知为何，总有种失落感
胸口闷闷地，好不滋味

努力地散去阴云，方才能好好的走下去……

等待 . 爱情

爱情是奇妙的
它给人蜜糖般甜甜的滋味
亦可带来苦汁的滋味

难以预测的爱情
总是趁你不留意时突然来击
当爱情来击时，难免会让人招架不住

然而，
爱情不能勉强
亦不能存有执着
是你的，终究会找上你
握紧了，就该珍惜

爱情亦是盲目的
越陷越深，越难以自拔
理智亦容易被掩埋
在爱情的陷阱里，勿忘保留理智

然而，爱情总是被渴望的

我的爱情，又在哪儿呢？

情.苦

感情最怕就是动了心却没有回报…
无胆表白却痴痴等待对方的回应……
苦苦等待的滋味是苦涩的...
很想摆脱却放不下...
只怪内心的坚韧敌不过种下的感情...

Present from an anonymous

On my last birthday, I was surprisingly received a bouquet of pink rose .... from anonymous...

This year Valentine's day, another surprise given to me to find a nice packed Royce chocolate on my table but again....from anonymous...

Anonymous, I do not know who you are and what is the reason behind you have concealed yourself.
But I would like to say thank you for the warmth and sweet gifts for that made my day.

However, I do hope so you will reveal yourself to me :)

Letting Go of the Desires

Read a nice article and decided to share here :

"We all have desires – it’s part of the human condition.

We want to be loved, to have friends, to experience joy, to have security.

But a desire for _things_ is not as natural as we’re often led to believe. Sure, we all have desires for things: nice cars, nice clothes, nice houses, cool computers and iPhones, beautiful furniture and notebooks and shoes and jewelry and bags and bikes and on and on.

But these desires are manufactured in us, by advertising and marketing. They play on our natural instincts: for hoarding (security), for the pleasures of food and drugs and sex (desire for joy), for fitting in with clothes and bikes and gadgets (desire for friends), and so on.

Desires like these lead to all kinds of problems — in fact, all the problems of modern society. They are rooted in the immense power of corporations in our society, and their drive for massive profits. Problems result that include obesity and related diseases, massive consumer debt, shallow consumerism, overwork (to make money for all these things), lack of true human connection, and more.

And while desires are perfectly natural and unavoidable, if we can learn to let go of the manufactured desires, we’ll start to free ourselves from the chains of consumerism.

Start to become aware of these desires – recognize their signs in you. Pause before acting on them. Take deep breaths, go for a walk, get some perspective. You don’t really need more things, and buying is not the answer. Make do without and find happiness without more stuff.

Let the desire go, and feel the lightness, the freedom. Become liberated from desires, one at a time (not forever, but for the moment). You’ll love it."

Letting go the desires for the peace and freedom in your soul ..

二减一

看到你突然传来的简讯 昔日的情意已逝
一股酸溜透进心里 掩盖了昔日的甜蜜

原以为天荒地老的初恋 却因自私的我 没勇气陪你走下去
选择结束了这段情

感情没了 思恋不在了 爱意逝了
我 却携带着内疚的心离开

天真地以为提出分手的我 可以潇洒的走开 原来是错的
分手的那一晚 我两的心是痛的 却谁也没说出口
强忍着抽泣 只好撒个谎套个圈

昨日的情人  如今回到原点
昔日的双人  如今却二减一
将近五年的感情 说分就分 心还是抽痛的

不舍的是 失去了聊心的伴
痛的是  失去了可忍受我蛮不讲理却不曾对我发脾气的伴
孤独的是 我收起了只对你撒娇的我

不敢回首往日的回忆  因它不再甜而是苦涩的

望着你离开的背影 心在抽泣
转个身  强忍的泪水 也随着你消失的身影 哗啦地流不停

而我 又再次回到一个人的生活。。。